I am not real sure what it is but there is just something about the quiet of a Sunday morning. The time changed last night to Daylight Savings Time. I am not bemoaning the loss of that hour since my sleep is a little erratic anyway. I did get kinda excited that I slept until 6:00 a.m. this morning and then realized that it was the same as if I had woke up at 5 yesterday. Oh well.
Last night was a date night with the potential new man. We have sorta picked up a routine. Supper at my house on Thurs. night, date night on Fri. night if I am going back north on Sat. and if not going back till Sun. then date night is Sat. night. It is a rhythm that has a nice, easy, comfortable flow to it. Mentioned to my daughter that last night was date night and we were going to ride up to the beach and eat and just goof off. Her reply was, 'you suck'. Cos see they like the beach. Told her I never saw myself as a beach person but dang if I don't enjoy being this close.
After riding up to the beach and having dinner we came back to my house and watched a movie. I had mentioned to my daughter a long time ago that one of the things I missed about being married was the physical part of it and I wasn't referring to sex. It is the hand holding, the random hug, the arm around your shoulder, and the snuggling. Last night watching this movie we just snuggled and watched TV. It was nice just to be close to someone that you could sit with your head on their shoulder and just be close. Sorry Janelle if this is TMI but we both agreed that it was very soothing for us to just be. As I have mentioned before, if it is meant to be it will be and if not the earth will not stop turning, but I do enjoy his company. He is intelligent enough to talk with about lots of different things, he is not needy or clingy, and silence is very comfortable with him. We shall see but I have to say he holds the record. It has been 2 months since we started going out and that is at least 2 weeks longer than the other 2 that I have went out with. Ah, well, have a great day!
I'm glad you've found someone to spend time with. Doesn't matter where it's headed. Just matters that you enjoyed being present together. Good for you! :)
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